Sunday, June 8, 2008

He's Here!

Daddy and Hayden I think this is so precious!

Right after he was born
The night he was born

Hayden Thomas Ricks
June 5, 2008
5lbs 11.5oz
18 1/2 in.

Our little Hayden decided he was sick of waiting, he was ready to come meet us 3 weeks before his due date. Thursday morning started out as a pretty normal day. I went to work at 6am just like I do every Thursday morning. I go to the University for a couple hours while the department of surgery has a meeting and basically man the breakfast foods. I wasn't feeling awesome while I was there but I hadn't gotten very much sleep the night before so I didn't think too much about it until I threw up, and then I knew I wasn't going in to work. I called in sick and came home after the meeting instead of going into the office. I went back to bed for about an hour and when I got up and started walking around about 9:30am I told Josh I thought my water broke, and I was having some cramping. Being first time parents we weren't sure if this was the real deal or not so I tried to call my Dr's office. My phone wasn't working so we went to Tyler & Rachel's to use their phone. I couldn't get a hold of my Dr. so we decided Josh would go to school...he had a practical that day...and I would get a hold of him if I needed him. I wasn't going to go to the hospital without a working cell phone so after Josh went to school I went and got a new phone. Josh and Rachel told me I couldn't be out driving if I was in labor, but I didn't listen. After getting my phone I called my Dr. again. I asked him what I should do. I had a stress test scheduled at 2pm, so I wasn't sure if I should wait until then to be checked or come to his office. He told me to go to labor and delivery to be checked. He said if it's the real deal they will admit you, if not go to your stress test appointment. Rachel took me down to the hospital at about 1pm and I was dilated to a 3 and 90% effaced, so they admit ed me. During the first hour at the hospital we tried to get a hold of Josh at the school, I threw up twice and my contractions were getting stronger and closer together. At about 2pm we finally got a hold of Tyler who was able to go get Josh. Josh was still in his practical so Tyler called to see if he should interrupt him. I wasn't sure what to do and the nurse said this is your first baby, you don't know how fast you will go get your husband here. Not too long after that Josh was at my side. I was so excited to see him! The first thing he said to me was "I'm SO excited!" After asking for my epidural for about an hour and a half I finally got it and I was able to be a little more comfortable during my contractions. I was not very patient while waiting for the epidural to come. Rachel said it was the only time I was grumpy. I kept asking where it was and why it was taking so long. I didn't think anyone was taking me seriously and I really wanted the epidural! I don't know why anyone would do it without! Labor went pretty fast and little Hayden was born at 5:51pm. I never thought I'd let anyone be in the room while I delivered except Josh, but after being with me all day Rachel just happened to be there when all the action took place! She said she always wanted someone to let her be there...so you're welcome Rach! Really I should be thanking her for all she did and continues to do for us. Thanks Rachel!
Hayden has had some problems breathing because his lungs are immature. So he is in the Special Care Nursery (NICU) where he is getting the constant care he needs right now. They expect that he will be fine in the next few days, but for now I'm home and he's still there, which is weird because it doesn't seem like we really had a baby. We love him so much and hopefully he'll be home with us and doing great really soon.


He has a little bit of jaundice. So here he is with his cool shades.

21 comments:

Denise Ricks said...

Malachi and Kylah are in love with him already. They can't wait to meet him.

Rachel and Tyler said...

You left out a few important details...thatI was there the whole time!, what you called hiim when you first saw him, about the cute flowers josh got you and your overactive bladder problem!!!

Jeff Brown said...

Congratulation Kandis. He is such a cute baby!!

Aves said...

CONGRATS!!! I texted you guys the day he was born. That is so great, you are so tough, I would have been screaming for people to give me an epidural before that. I can't wait to see more pictures!! I am glad you and the baby are healthy and doing well! I had another friend have twin girls like the exact same time. Babies babies!! Miss you and Congrats! LOVE YOU

Child Family said...

Congrats!! I am so glad that things went well. He looks so cute. Congrats again, I am so happy for you.

Andrea Livingston said...

Congratulations! He is so adorable!

JoeyandKalee said...

Congratulations guys!! I can't wait to see him! I am so glad everything went well, and you have a healthy baby. You will have to put more pictures up when he gets home!

Dick&Erica said...

Congratulations! He looks so cute. Isn't that the weirdest feeling to go home without your baby? It's like "Did I really just have a baby?". But at least you're getting a few extra nights of sleep!

Anthony and Kristie said...

Congratulations, I am so excited for you. He is so cute.

Guh said...

congrats!

that's awesome. Thanks for the pics

Britta said...

Congrats! What a little cutie. I'm so glad things went so well and that you're both doing so great. Hooray for new babies!

All About Us! said...

Hey! Congratulations. He is such a cute baby. It makes me want another one:) Good Luck with the new addtion, they are so much fun!

Tess said...

congrats! I hope you get to bring him home really soon.

Tina said...

oh he is a doll, sooo cute!! Congrats your the best mom already!!

kristenita said...

congrats! I hope he comes home ASAP!! isn't it frustrating how they don't take 1st-time-moms seriously? um, I THINK we might have a clue about what is going on with our bodies... and the difference between pain & pressure. sounds like everything worked out ok though - I can't believe you were in labor & went out to get a new cell phone!
congrats - love that cute little one & just take it easy & stare & stare & stare at him. there's nothing like a teeny newborn.
:)

Ash said...

YAY!! Congrats and great job!! What a cute little guy!!

Peter and Lesha said...

He is so cute congratulations and thanks for the text message. I am glad things are going good I will have to call you once you get settled and see how you are doing. Good job both of you, it only gets better and better everyday.

Megan said...

Congrats Kandis! I hope that he starts breathing better soon! :)

Boss said...

Congratulations! What an exciting birth story!

The Hill's said...

Kandis and Josh congrats on baby Hayden. You all look so very cute. I am so glad things went well. I loved reading your story. He is such a keeper and Josh is such the proud dad. You both will be great parents. I will keep you all in my prayers. Best of love and luck - Jenn

Peter and Lesha said...

ok so I had to come look again. He is so cute and girlfriend your labor went so fast, good for you!! Good job and congrats I hope you are both feeling and doing well. I have to say Carson is soooo much more fun at 4 months than he was at 4 days, it's gets better everyday! Call me when you have a sec (might not be for a while I realize!)